Just a handful of pennies with
grandpa at the horse track was a favorite memory of Mom would explain in detail. Her grandmother (as I myself would be) was
horrified and did not condone this activity shared by the two of them. But as life sometimes goes it evidently
happened on numerous occasions.
According to Mom they spent a lot of time going over what to look for in
a winning horse. It was not surprising
when she moved to Louisville
over twenty years ago that Derby Day was always fun for her. She never went to the track. However she had her newspaper ready with all
the details about each horse and the television tuned to the station. All day she would sit with her paper and mark
the horses she thought would win- watch the race- and then give her cocky smile
and cheer as every race at least one or more of her choices would win.
Over the years we made the day
special for her. My husband would plan
to barbecue and I made several derby hats she would wear all day. The family would gather, but in the midst of
whatever the chaos she would stay steady with her newspaper and watch the
races. Every year we vowed next year we
would take her to the track and put real money on her choices, but not being a
family given to gambling it just never happened.
As on may occasions this past
year my heart stirred with memories of the good times we shared during this
time. It was shortly after Derby
last year that she passed on. Early this
week I started having the thought that if the name of any of the horses struck a
chord that related to her or my thoughts of her that this year I would make a
wager. As the names and stories of the
horses came out nothing hit me so I was giving up my “crazy” thought as just
another moment of being overwhelmed missing my Mom.
Yesterday I woke up to a rainy
derby day and flipped on the local television coverage. Shortly into the program I heard the name
“Golden Soul”. That’s it I thought. She is now my golden soul! I called my daughter and asked her how to
place a bet. She didn't know, but was
intrigued by my idea and decided to figure it out. In the end we placed the bet together just
enjoying the moment of how fun Mom would have thought this would be. I sent a text to a few family and friends
about what we had done and then I spent the day cooking with my other
daughter. My husband pulled out the
grill and at six in the evening the TV trays were set up and we were all
enjoying a lovely meal.
Jim and the grandchildren stood
for the singing of “My “Ol Kentucky Home” as the horses headed for the
gate. They were off! Of course we looked for “Golden Soul” but he
was not with the leaders. Then they
rounded the middle turn. My daughter who
placed the bet with me was on her feet.
“He’s coming up Mom! Look!
Look!” We were all screaming then
and cheering him on. In the last few
lengths of the race he took a leading position and crossed the line in second
place. Of the three winning horses that
second place paid the most on the dollar of all the horses who placed! It was a small bet that paid nicely.
What I will do with “my winnings”
remains to be decided and will probably fade into the place where memories
store up in our brain until triggered by Derby
talk in the days to come. But the
sweetness of doing it all just to honor my Mom’s memory and it actually turning
out to be a winner will be in the forefront of my thoughts for many days to
come. Thanks Mom for the fun I have and
will forever share with you. I sent a text to my sister-in-law, "We haven’t stopped screaming!" She texts back, “Neither has Mom!”……….
Such a sweet story!
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